Mehendi, Haldi

The Ashley Castle

Morning Ceremony

Evening Reception

Winter

Our Wedding

She's a city girl from Bangalore, Karnataka who fell madly for the mountain boy from New Mexico.

Her Version

Once upon a time a salsa dude met a salsa chica... He had just come from having Indian food with his Chinese buddy and had delicious heat activated spices pouring our of his pores... As they danced she smelled the familiar spices and said,"I'm sorry if I smell like Indian food.""Actually, that's me." replied the Salsa Dude. She looked and him and laughed thinking to herself, this one's different.Later that night when everyone was saying goodbye, Salsa Dude said goodbye to her in Hindi, thinking that was gonna get her attention and make her think he was cool."Yo, what the fuck?! This dude speaks Hindi?!" She exclaimed loudly while spontaneously laughing at the surprise. Mission accomplished, she remembered him.He liked her a lot right away... She was funny and confident and direct. Very quickly he thought about asking her out, but life had other plans for both of them. Different paths for a time.Over the years when both were free, he would check in and try to get her attention, but she was busy being a Salsa Superstar and growing through challenges and changes that life had for her. A few plans were made to hang out sometime, but remained as plans. Good intentions at least between busy distracted friends.MANY YEARS LATER, she got added to a group chat of all his camping buddies. He finally had a chance to get noticed, so he continued to say funny things and do cool shit so she could observe him in action.She liked it... Not long after, they went to Gharba with some friends. It's a festival that originated in the worship of the mother, the womb, the divine feminine, and has lots of dancing in big circle representing life.At one point, a cute little Indian toddler all dressed up in a sari waddled past them... CUTE AS SHIT, for real."OMG my ovaries!!!" exclaimed Salsa Chick"You want to make one with me some day?" said Salsa Dude"Whuuut?" replied Salsa Chica, staring into his eyes wondering if he meant it or was just creepy...He meant it, but she missed the memo, so he spent the rest of the night being funny and doing cool shit and talking with her. She found out he was raised with a lot of the same background as her and started to get intrigued. This one's different, she thought again. Something was working.Over the next few months she started inviting him to random shindigs here and there. They kept talking, she kept getting intrigued. He stayed very patient, knowing good things, like delicious Indian dishes, take time and should not be rushed.Finally, life decided it was time. After a night of camping, Salsa Dude and Salsa Chick finally got a chance to spend a whole day together talking about everything in life, babies, marriage, even death. They had moments of laughter, debate, unfiltered rawness, and complete honesty. Both took risks and both found a home in the other.Salsa Dude and Salsa Chica each went home super excited and within a few days made it official. A week later they made it public, although some friends had already guessed that love was brewing. A week after that, Salsa Dude called his parents and told them he had found his wife and his kids' future mom.Then a whole year went by... Salsa Chica didn't know it, but Salsa Dude was already ring shopping and working on getting the right design. Shit was tough... took a while. Then finally, during the same Indian celebration of the Womb, Mother, and Goddess, at the exact place they had seen the little toddler the previous year, he stopped all his friends for a second to ask her again..."Hey babe... remember when we saw that cute kid and I asked you if you wanted to make one together some day?What's your answer now?""Of course!" she said, awkwardly looking at the group that had very happily stopped to listen. Why were they all just smiling and staring?"Good" he said, then dropping to one knee, "Will you marry me then?"Instinctually, in the universal gesture of a girl who is ready to marry her man, her hands found their way to her face, covering her mouth as she gasped in surprise."Yo, what the fuck?!" She exclaimed, just like their first meeting. Then after a moment, realizing she hadn't finished, "Yes! Of course!".Since then, life continues to be epic together despite any challenges thrown their way. They've growth closer, discovered new hobbies together and gone on more adventures. Also a lot of Netfilx shows, so much Taco Bell and too much laundry/dishes and chores. But they like LIFEing together and start each day grateful for the other, excited for the years ahead.

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Throughout our wedding, we’re celebrating the beautiful blend of our two cultures and welcome traditional wear from all of our friends and family. We encourage everyone to explore the best of what India and/or the West has to offer.Each event will have a specific color palette you can dress for, if you’d like. While not required, we’d love for guests to embrace the themes to help create an unforgettable atmosphere across each celebration. We kindly ask guests to avoid neon or overly bright shades.If you’re wondering whether Indian clothing is welcome even if you are not Indian — the answer is YES, absolutely! This celebration is about two cultures coming together, and we encourage everyone to join in the fun.Not sure what to wear? Dress to impress in whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident. Feeling more daring? Go all out — we’d love to see your creativity and personal style shine, whether traditional, modern, or a blend of both.Details for each event are listed below.

Morning ceremony

Semi-Formal / Formal — Earthy Elegance Join us for a morning celebration inspired by the warmth of nature and the beauty of our blended cultures. We invite guests to embrace an Indo-Western aesthetic with elegant semi-formal to formal attire in rich, earthy tones.Think forest greens, maroons, terracotta, browns, warm tans, creams, and subtle gold accents — colors that feel timeless, romantic, and refined. Guests are welcome to wear:South Indian attire such as Kanjeevaram sarees, silk or cotton-silk sarees, half-sarees, or traditional Kannadiga styles, along with kurta sets and veshti/dhotiNorth Indian attire such as sarees, lehengas, anarkalis, sharara sets, or kurta sets with churidar, dhoti pants, or jacketsIndo-Western inspired looks: Sarees with modern drapes, lehengas styled with contemporary cuts, or classic suits and dresses elevated with Indian fabrics, embroidery, or detailing.Western formal or semi-formal attire such as dresses, suits, jumpsuits, or tailored separates with warm, natural tones and elegant silhouettesFlowing fabrics and rich textures such as silk blends, cotton silks, linen, chiffon, organza, or other lightweight fabrics perfect for a morning celebrationGold jewelry, metallic details, embroidery, or subtle embellishments to complement the earthy palette

Evening cocktail hour and reception

Cocktail / Formal — Regal Evening in jewel tones Think plums, royal purples, deep blues, navy, black, and gold accents — a palette that feels sophisticated, romantic, and effortlessly glamorous. Guests are welcome to wear:South Indian attire such as richly woven Kanjeevaram sarees, silk sarees, lehengas, sherwanis, bandhgala suits, or modern Indo-Western ensemblesNorth Indian attire such as embellished sarees, lehengas, shararas, anarkalis, ghararas, or tailored sherwanis and Indo-Western suitsWestern cocktail or formal attire such as cocktail dresses, gowns, suits, tuxedo-inspired looks, or elegant separatesLuxurious fabrics and textures such as silk, velvet, satin, chiffon, brocade, or embellished fabrics that shine beautifully under evening lightsGold jewelry, statement accessories, metallic details, embroidery, or subtle sparkle to complement the evening palette

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Things to Do

Only steps from the San Marcos Golf Course, this hotel in Chandler, Arizona features an outdoor pool, an on-site beauty salon and 3 on-site restaurants. Each guest room at Crowne Plaza Phoenix - Chandler Golf Resort provides a private balcony or patio. Guests can take advantage of the free wireless internet access available throughout the hotel or browse for souvenirs in the on-site gift shop. On-site dining is available at the 1912 Sports Lounge and AJ's Restaurant. Guests can also enjoy a cup of coffee at the on-site cafe featuring Starbucks coffee, relax in the whirlpool or rest in the beautiful courtyards. Historic, downtown San Marcos is within walking distance of the San Marcos Crowne Plaza Resort. Several sports venues including Tempe Diablo Stadium and US Airways Center are located within driving distance.

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